One of the most exciting and challenging ideas that the General Directory for Catechesis brought us is the concept of apprenticeship.
This comprehensive formation includes more than instruction: it is an apprenticeship of the entire Christian life. (67)
The whole idea, of course, is that those seeking to enter more fully into discipleship are to be mentored into the Christian way of life. This is the basis of our Catholic practice of providing sponsors for those preparing for Initiation into the Church.
In the catechetical ministry, many of us have been exploring this concept of apprenticeship and seeking ways to shape our efforts around this approach. Unfortunately, we have been doing one aspect of this all wrong! Too many of us have been thinking of ourselves (pastoral staff) as the mentors and everybody else as the apprentices when, in fact, our parishes are FULL of potential mentors who we should be training and empowering to work with apprentices.
Case in point: I’ve been asked to do a parent First Eucharist meeting early in 2015. For too long, I’ve approached these gatherings as though I am the mentor who is there to apprentice these young parents into their role as the primary catechists of their children. The fact is, the parish already has a number of parents who have successfully walked with their children through First Eucharist and can now share their wisdom and experience with other parents. In other words, my job as the “presenter” for this First Eucharist parent meeting is to work with the DRE to identify and invite some parents whose children recently received First Eucharist to share their stories with this year’s parents as I facilitate that discussion. Speakers like me swoop in and swoop out of a parish; however these parents that I’m speaking of—these mentors—remain visible in the life of the parish, living and breathing role models who can mentor young parents and apprentice them into embracing their role in their child’s faith formation.
Here are some questions that I will give the panel of mentors to reflect on in preparation for them to share their stories:
- What moment stands out for you as you look back on your child’s preparation for and reception of First Eucharist?
- What does it mean for you to have your child regularly receiving Eucharist with you on Sunday?
- How did you contribute to your child’s preparation to receive the Eucharist?
- Why was it so important for you to bring your child to receive First Eucharist?
- What obstacles did you face along the way and how did you deal with them?
- How do you respond to your child when he or she expresses reluctance or asks why they have to go to Mass?
What other questions can you suggest that “mentor parents” might respond to at a First Eucharist parent meeting to help “apprentice parents”?