A Different Approach for Letters to the Bishop for Confirmation

Joe Paprocki and colleagues at lunch in Jacksonville

During a trip I made last month to Jacksonville, FL, I had the pleasure of enjoying lunch with my friend and colleague Sean Williams (to my left) and two wonderful people, Deacon Jerry Turkowski (DRE) and Monina Mulleague (CRE), of San Juan del Rio Catholic Church in Jacksonville. Deacon Jerry and Monina recently adopted the Finding God program for their very sizeable parish and, over lunch, we discussed various aspects of evangelizing catechesis, and we got on the subject of listening to people’s stories.

I recalled how a priest friend of mine explained that, for the first few years of his priesthood, he began marriage prep with couples by asking them why they wanted to be married in the Church. Eventually, he came to realize that beginning with that question was not very welcoming. Now, he begins by asking couples to describe how they met and fell in love. That small change has made a world of difference.

That got me to thinking about how we often invite Confirmation candidates to write letters to the bishop explaining why they wish to be confirmed. While I think that’s a wonderful idea, I suggest that we take a similar approach with young people to that my priest friend took with engaged couples: invite them to share their story first! Confirmation candidates can introduce themselves to the bishop by giving a short thumbnail story of who they are, including their hobbies, extracurricular activities, favorite music, favorite sports team, what they hope to be in life, and more. Eventually, they can express their reasons for wanting to be confirmed, but that can come after they’ve had a chance to introduce themselves to the bishop.

Thanks Deacon Jerry, Monina, and Sean, for inspiring this post!

What other questions would you invite the Confirmation candidates to answer as part of telling their story to the bishop?

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Joe Paprocki, DMin, is National Consultant for Faith Formation at Loyola Press. He has more than 30 years of experience in ministry and has taught at many different levels. He is the author of numerous books, including the bestseller The Catechist’s Toolbox and Under the Influence of Jesus.

5 Comments on A Different Approach for Letters to the Bishop for Confirmation

  1. This idea is very good. I think the children will enjoy telling the Bishop about themselves, it will bring the children closer to understanding that the Bishop and our Catholic Church is a community that cares about them. What better way to teach them!

  2. Questions I might include are what I ask in their one on one interview before Confirmation–how they see themselves taking their soon to be confirmed Faith to the next level through involvement in Church ministry/ leadership; and also what gift of the Holy Spirit do they feel they especially need at this point in their lives/why.

  3. Do they feel that the Lord has always meant to be apart of our life? How Has that been true in your own life and after confirmed how will you continue your faith journey?

  4. Before taking their confirmed faith to the next level set aside a class that students can have time to reflect on “Who Is God To Them”.
    This can be done by having them use the Creed, rewriting it in their own words.
    Amen “True Diciples”.

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