From the monthly archives:

October 2008

I hate the phrase “catch-up” catechesis but you know what I’m talking about…kids who come to R.E. programs having missed some years of R.E. and having missed reception of First Penance, First Communion, or Confirmation. Think this is a small problem for DREs? Think again. I recently asked a number of DREs to share some thoughts on this issue and here is a glimpse of what I got. You’re welcome to add your thoughts and suggestions for how to best deal with these situations.

·         I deal with it constantly.  I have 125 kids in my program about 15% of them begin in first grade and go all the way through.  Besides the kids who have no background, we also have kids who take four years out between communion and confirmation prep.

·         VERY prevalent at my parish as I have a large Latino population requesting “communion classes,” with students entering the program at various ages with little to no catechetical formation.

·         Every few years I have a small group of high school students that have for one reason or another missed one or another sacrament and need “catch-up.” The parents bring them of course only if there is the need for First Eucharist or Confirmation.

·         Currently we have 8 junior high and 1 high school student in this situation. That’s been pretty standard for the last 3 years.

·         Our staff had a major discussion about this last night.  We have a list with at least 10 children who are entering the program at different stages of catechesis.  More often they have no formal religious training, parents want them with their peers and the kids are anxious to belong.

·         What I’ve found thus far is that we have a huge number of Hispanic families who leave after their children receive First Communion and then return for Confirmation. I had spoken with the Hispanic Ministry office at the diocese about this and they explained to me that this is a cultural issue.  This is the way the Hispanic families receive the sacraments in their home country.  They are only prepared for a few weeks or months.  We explain the way we do it in this country, but they have great difficulty understanding. 

·         We began an “Initiation Class” about 4-5 years ago. If children come to us who have not had any RE and need to “catch up” and prepare for FR, FC, they go in this class. We’ve even had a couple prepare for baptism, confirmation and communion.

·         This happens very often, for a variety of reasons, especially given the transiency of the local population—lots of people relocating here after difficult life experiences and in that turmoil, lots of faith formation and sacramental preparation “falls through the cracks.”

·         Situations requiring “catch-up catechesis” are definitely becoming more common.  Fourteen years ago, our average “Sacramental Preparation Class” was comprised of approximately five young people.  Today, we have eighteen enrolled in Sacramental Prep. Though there is a slow but evident increase in the need for “catch-up catechesis” , conversations with other DREs lead me to believe the need is much stronger in parishes that are more heavily Hispanic.  Thus, as our demographics change, I anticipate even larger classes of young people falling into this category.

·        we have 28 second graders preparing for First Reconciliation and Communion. We have 54 students grades 3 through 10.

·         Every year between 4-6 middle-schoolers and several teens (who stopped after Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist) return and/or move in from assignments in other countries and require “catch-up” catechesis.

·         All ages from grades 3-7

·         Every year we have more and more families who come to us after missing a few years or never having been in religious education at all.  I just registered a new family with children in second and fifth grade who have never been baptized.  

·         I am not surprised to hear that you are receiving such inquiries regarding this type of catechesis.  We are dealing with it too along with an increase in the number of ’special needs’ children.  There seems to be a definite rise in the number of children who need ‘catching up’.

·         I have 13 students this year (six 3rd graders, three 4th graders, one 5th, one 7th and two high school Confirmation)  All but one needs the First Sacrament of Eucharist and all but one needs comprehensive catch-up to their appropriate age/grade level

·         Yes, it is an issue.  It is an RCIA issue.  Those who have not been to the table should be in RCIA.  This should be a program in addition to RE program.  But that is so difficult.

·         We have students every year who are out of sequence.  They really need to be caught up.  They need to know and understand the language.  I have a few kids each year…. some just coming for communion, but right now I have one 7th grader who was baptized and doesn’t even know what the nativity is.  We have about 4 third graders who haven’t done anything and they need to be caught up.  Sometimes a divorce keeps parents from getting their act together, they just can’t handle one more thing…. But they could do a simple home study program with their child…. And think of how much they are learning too.

·         There are two different situations that arise because of these different situations. There are children who are in third through eighth grade who are not in the sequence to receive the sacraments because:

o   The family moved

o   A parent/child had a long illness

o   The parent was not going to the church

o   Family was out of the country

o   Divorce situation

o   Parents are coming back to their faith/ have changed their faith

o   Kids were being raised a faith other than Catholic by the non-catholic parent.

·         The first group is families where the kids were baptized and they may have had some kind of Religious Education or sometimes no Religious Education. So now when the kids are older than second grade and you just place them into a let’s say a fifth grade group how will that child feel with no background. The curriculum in fifth grade will not prepare the child for sacraments and kids do not like to be placed in a group with a textbook and kids geared to Grade Two (Which is the level sacramental prep is geared). There are about 10 kids a year that fall in this area. 

·         The second group is families where the kids were never baptized and they are older than seven and now they will receive all their sacraments of initiation at the same time. They have not been going to church and have had no Religious Education.  There are no materials that I have found to help with this situation. The RCIA materials are geared to adults and the adults in the RCIA program are not trained to work with children.  So the children are referred to the RE Department for their formation. Just to begin using a textbook at the child’s grade level doesn’t give a good starting point, it assumes they have a background in the prier books. There are about 2 kids a year that fall in this area.

 

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I’m still interested in hearing more suggestions about how kids can evangelize (in the spirit of St. Paul) in practical everyday ways…see my post from yesterday.

We have to find ways of helping kids to be authentic evangelizers and Christian witnesses. One thing they fear greatly is being stereotyped. They don’t want to be viewed as a type of “Flanders” – the character from The Simpsons who (along with his kids Rod and Todd) is the ultimate caricature of an overbearing sickly sweet (albeit sincere) Christian.

Kids want and need to be authentic.

 

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How Kids Can Learn from Saint Paul

by Joe on October 29, 2008

Lots of people have been asking me about resources for the Year of St. Paul to use with kids. To be honest, most of the resources I have come across are simply books or articles. Good stuff, but not a lot about activities we can do with kids. Lo and behold, this coming Monday, the chapter I’m teaching is about Peter and Paul telling the world about Jesus! So now I’m searching far and wide for something creative to use! At the same time, I am never hesitant to “re-invent the wheel” if the situation calls for it!

Here’s one idea I’m working on and I invite your help. The textbook has some nice information on Peter and Paul that we can read and I also have a segment of Peter and Paul the DVD that I can show. However, I would like to develop a list of very practical ways that young people can evangelize. I thought I would provide them with such a list, discuss it with them, and then give them some prayerful time to reflect on which of the ways they feel most comfortable with (as well as which ones they think are “corny”). Here’s what I have so far:

  • show enthusiasm for your faith (especially when going to Mass and R.E.)
  • invite a friend to attend Mass
  • pray in a public place (such as making the Sign of the Cross in the cafeteria or in a restaurant before a meal)
  • wear a sacramental (a chain, scapular, or pin) and be prepared to talk about it
  • display a religious image on your book bag or folder(s) and again, be prepared to talk about it
  • make mention of your faith on your Facebook or MySpace page (mention that you go to R.E.; are going to be confirmed this year, etc.)
  • get involved in some form of service (above and beyond “required” service hours)
  • become involved in a parish activity/ministry and don’t be shy to talk about it with others
  • strive to be an example of Gospel values, especially in circumstances in which those values are often not seen
  • put a religious ring tone on your cell phone
  • end your voice mail greeting by saying “Peace” or “Blessings”
  • create an email signature that does likewise
  • help someone in need
  • include God in your everyday vocabulary
  • tell someone you will pray for them
  • respond “thank God” or “praise God” when someone shares a success story with you
  • display a religious article in your room where friends who visit will see it and be prepared to talk about it
  • talk about good experiences at Church or religious education
  • invite friends to social functions at your parish and introduce them to the pastor, DRE, catechists, etc.
  • when gossip happens, tactfully steer the conversation in a new direction
  • send an email to a friend in need assuring him or her of your prayers
  • be generous with compliments
  • ask someone to pray for you when you are in need
  • offer some money to a person in need
  • carry a Rosary (or finger Rosary) in your pocket or purse and don’t be ashamed to let it be seen
  • write “Jn 3:16″ or some other significant Scripture passage on your book bag or on a folder and be ready to explain what it means
  • read an inspirational book while on a trip with friends

I WOULD LOVE TO GET MORE SUGGESTIONS FROM YOU!

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An Evening of Getting to Know Jesus

by Joe on October 28, 2008

Last night, we spent the evening getting to know Jesus better. Here are some highlights.

  • First we had a fire drill..all went well.
  • I began by playing our “song of the week” – Shania Twain’s “Wanna Get to Know You.” (see yesterday’s post for some of the lyrics)
  • I talked about how 2 people in love want to get to know one another and explained that this is our theme for the evening: we want to get to know Jesus because of our love for him and his love for us.
  • I arranged the kids in pairs and assigned them to one of the five topics on Jesus: the world of Jesus, the words of Jesus, the miracles of Jesus, the people of Jesus, and the death and resurrection of Jesus.
  • The kids worked for about 20 minutes making their posters (using the info I provided them with…click on the 5 topics above) and then looking over the information to prepare short presentations.
  • Each group then took about 3 to 5 minutes to present their poster to the large group, providing a brief summary of their topic.
  • As each group presented, the other kids recorded at least 3 to 5 pieces of information into a little booklet I provided them titled Jesus: Wanna Get to Know You.
  • The presentations went nicely (once we got past the pair of gigglers). The presentations were by no means stellar, but I appreciated the attitude the kids had – they approached the project with respect and seemed very sincere in sharing the information as they understood it.
  • We even had some nice discussion after each poster presentation. I provided a brief summary of what we just heard about each poster and filled in some of the “cracks” and it resulted in kids asking some good questions about Jesus. They seemed particularly interested in Jesus’ healings, the fact that he associated with outcasts, the notion that he called God the Father “Abba” (Papa) and told us to do the same, and the details of his crucifixion. 

In all, a productive and constructive evening that hopefully brought us all just a bit closer to Christ!

P.S. The other day in Joliet, I had a chance to chat with Fr. Don Senior, president of the Catholic Theological Union in Chicago, member of the Pontifical Biblical Commission, and prolific author and speaker. I told Fr. Don that I was  doing a session with my 8th graders that was inspired by his book Jesus: A Gospel Portrait and he seemed genuinely delighted to know that his work was making an impact on our young people!

Joe with Fr. Donald Senior

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Jesus: Wanna Get to Know You

by Joe on October 27, 2008

This week’s “song of the week” for my 8th graders is a song from Shania Twain titled, Wanna Get to Know You. As we focus tonight on getting to know Jesus: his world, his words, his miracles, his people, and his death and resurrection, I thought this song would be appropriate. Here’s a sampling of some of the lyrics:

I don’t wanna hurry
I wanna take a lifetime to
memorize your face

Wanna know you all over
Till I know you be heart
Gotta know you with all that I got

[Chorus:]
I wanna know you that good!
Like no one knows you
Gonna reach way down deep in your mind
I wanna get to know you–
wanna get to know you
Wanna get to know you that good

Don’t wanna miss a minute–
wanna be right in it
Do everything you’re doin’–
go everywhere you’re goin’

Wanna know you all over
Till I know you by heart
Gotta know you with all that I got

I wanna know you that good
Wanna know your emotions–
wanna taste every tear
Wanna hear you breathin’–
feel what your feelin’
I wanna get to know
Know you that good!
Like no one knows you
Gonna reach way down deep in your mind
I wanna get to know you–

When 2 people are in love, they want to get to know one another. This is the mindset that I want the young people to have as we learn about Jesus.

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