From Fulfilling Obligations to Living Heroically

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Fear can be a great motivator. When I was growing up, religion classes at St. Casimir School regularly included filmstrips (the great cutting-edge technology of the 1960s) from the St. John’s University Sound Filmstrip Catechism that always seemed to include a depiction of God speaking in an angry voice and/or people burning in hell. For most of us growing up at that time, the primary reason for going to church was to avoid the fires of hell which would consume us if we did not go. People today (especially millennials) insist on being given a good reason why they should wake up on Sunday and go to Mass. Simply going because we are obliged to go does not cut it. That’s not to say that millennials don’t respect the notion of obligation. It simply means that they want to know why something is an obligation. And the response has to be something better than, “because if you don’t, you’ll go to hell.” Many people today simply don’t see going to church as an obligation that is worth the time and effort.

As a Church, we need to go beyond the notion of satisfying obligation and invite people to live heroically. Young people are attracted to involvement in something that they clearly perceive as a movement. Adult faith formation can and should help them to recognize discipleship as entering a heroic movement—God’s movement. We need to “market” the Church, not as a safe oasis where people dream of floating on clouds for all eternity (which, by the way, is a horrible image of heaven!), but as an edgy place where folks grapple with hard truths that compel them to participate in activities that even have a hint of danger.

What, exactly, does it mean to live heroically? In his book, Beyond Success: The 15 Secrets to Effective Leadership and Life, Brian D. Biro explains that one thing that all real heroes have in common is that they use every fiber of their being to do something that makes a profoundly positive difference in the lives of others. Heroic living is a characteristic of Ignatian spirituality. In his books, Heroic Leadership and Heroic Living, Chris Lowney describes the concept of magis (Latin for “more”) as the foundation of heroism. Lowney explains that Jesuits are taught to seek to do “the more”—and not simply as in adding on more activity. Rather, the magis is an attitude that is never content just to go through the motions but is always seeking something greater. Adult faith formation should inspire people to contribute meaningfully to a cause that is greater than themselves. According to Lowney, this type of heroic leadership inspires heroic living, a way of life that is characterized by the desire to live according to a “mighty purpose.” People today are grappling with a world that is increasingly complex. They are seeking a mighty purpose in life to steer them through the chaos. This mighty purpose needs to extend beyond a myopic desire to avoid hell and get to heaven and instead invite people to participate in a movement that seeks to transform the world.

Heroes do not have to wear capes or possess super powers. We all have heroes in our lives—those people who on one or more occasion used every fiber of their being to make a profound difference in our life. The call to follow Christ is nothing less than heroic. Discipleship is about much more than being nice to others. It is about laying down our lives for others, which does not necessarily mean to die physically but to set aside our own needs in favor of tending to the needs of others. Parents and spouses do this each and every day, which is why I consider marriage and parenthood to be two of the most significant conversion experiences in a person’s life. In addition to these two profound vocations, however, anyone who unselfishly and sincerely provides a service to another person, even when receiving remuneration, is heroically laying down his or her life for others: teachers, first-responders, customer service representatives, medical personnel, hairdressers, flight attendants, and so on. No matter what situation they find themselves in, heroes make it a habit of having the best interests of others in mind—just like God. And I can think of no purpose mightier than participating in God’s plan of Salvation.

Happy Feast Day, St. Ignatius!

This year’s celebration of the Feast Day of St. Ignatius of Loyola is more special to me than ever before. It was just a few months ago that I had the privilege of going on pilgrimage to Spain and Rome to follow in his footsteps with many of my Loyola Press colleagues! Of the many […]

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Forming Children and Youth for the Mass, Part 6: Real Presence

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This is the sixth article in a series about forming children for active participation in the Mass. Polls show that many Catholics don’t believe in the Real Presence of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist. If so many adults don’t understand it, how can catechists help children to learn this and take it to heart? Begin […]

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Using the Extra Daylight of Summer

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At her blog Days of Deepening Friendship, Vinita Hampton Wright rejoices in the arrival of summer and all it bring with it. In one particular post, “The Correct Use of More Daylight,” Vinita writes that the “long days [of summer] are a gift,” and, “we would do well to consider how to approach the lengthened […]

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Teaching Young Adults to Pray

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When I look back on my faith journey as a young adult, I am extremely grateful for the older adults in my life who took the time to teach me how to pray. Their gifts of sharing their wisdom and teaching me the practical tools of our faith serve me well as I journey through […]

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Finding Middle Ground Between “Churchy” and “Secular” Events

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Most adult faith formation activities seem to fall into two disparate categories. On the one hand, we find activities that are unabashedly spiritual in nature. Here are examples from various parish bulletins: First Friday Eucharistic Adoration Rosary Group St. Peregrine Novena Baptismal Preparation Divine Mercy Chaplet Pilgrimage to the Shrine of Christ’s Passion …and so on. […]

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Fruit of the Vine: Wine and the Spiritual Life

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Last week, I enjoyed my first-ever wine tasting tour in the Harbor Country of Michigan along with my wife and our kids and their significant others. It was a wonderful experience as we enjoyed the variety of flavors from a number of wineries in the New Buffalo area. The experience led me to reflect on […]

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Forming Children and Youth for the Mass, Part 5: Sacrifice

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This is the fifth article in a series about forming children for active participation in the Mass. The Mass is both sacrifice and a meal. It’s not just Jesus’ sacrifice, but ours as well. However, in a culture where so many kids get anything they want, the idea of laying down one’s life for others […]

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Start-of-the-Year Parent Gathering—Free PowerPoint Presentation

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As you plan for the new catechetical year, schedule a start-of-the-year parent gathering. This is a great opportunity to meet parents and encourage them in their role as their children’s first catechist. To help you, I’m offering a free PowerPoint presentation, complete with suggested script, for hosting a parent gathering. The message it conveys is […]

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How Saint Joachim and Saint Ann Can Inspire Catechetical Ministers

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The upcoming memorial of Saint Joachim and Saint Ann has me thinking about how these saints can inspire catechetical ministers. Tradition tells us that Joachim and Ann were the parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary. As the Saints Kit says, “They must have set the example that Mary followed to become the loving, gentle, faith-filled, […]

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